Who Will Take The Son?

A wealthy man and his son loved to collect art pieces. They had everything in their collection, from Picasso to Raphael. They would often sit together and admire the great works of art.

When the Vietnam conflict broke out, the son went to war. He was very courageous and died in battle while rescuing another soldier. The father was notified and grieved deeply for his only son.

About a month later, just before Christmas, there was a knock at the door. A young man stood at the door with a large package in his hands.

He said, “Sir, you do not know me, but I am the soldier for whom your son gave his life. He saved many lives that day, and he was carrying me to safety when a bullet struck him in the heart and he died instantly. He often talked about you and your love for art.” The young man held out the package. “I know this is not much. I am not really a great artist, but I think your son would have wanted you to have this.”

The father opened the package and it was a portrait of his son, painted by the young man. He stared in awe at the way the soldier had captured the personality of his son in the painting. The father was so drawn to the eyes that his own eyes welled up with tears. He thanked the young man and offered to pay him for the picture. “Oh, no sir, I could never repay what your son did for me. It is a gift.”

The father hung the portrait over his mantle. Everytime visitors came to his home he took them to see the portrait of his son before he showed them any of the other great works he had collected. The man died a few months later. There was to be a great auction of his paintings. Many influential people gathered, excited over seeing the great paintings and having an opportunity to purchase one for their collection.

On the platform sat the painting of the son. The auctioneer pounded his gavel. “We will start the bidding with this picture of the son. Who will bid for this picture?” There was silence. Then a voice in the back of the room shouted, “We want to see the famous paintings. Skip this one.” The auctioneer persisted. “Will somebody bid for this painting? Who will start the bidding? $100, $200?”

Another voice angrily shouted, “We did not come to see this painting. We came to see the Rembrandts, Van Gogh’s. Get on with the real bids.” However, the auctioneer continued, “The son, the son, who will take the son?”

Finally, a voice came from the very back of the room. It was the longtime gardener of the man and his son. “I will give $10 for the painting.” Being a poor man, it was all he could afford. “We have $10, who will bid $20?” “Give it to him for $10. Let us see the masters.” The crowd was becoming angry. They did not want the picture of the son. They wanted the more worthy investments for their collections. The auctioneer pounded the gavel. “Going once, twice, sold for $10.”

A man sitting on the second row shouted, “Now let us get on with the collection.” The auctioneer laid down his gavel. “I am sorry, the auction is over.” “What about the other paintings?” “I am sorry. When I was called to conduct this auction, I was told of a secret stipulation in the will. I was not allowed to reveal that stipulation until this time. Only the painting of the son would be auctioned. Whoever bought that painting would inherit the entire estate, including the other paintings. The man who took the son gets everything.”

God gave His son 2,000 years ago to die on the cross. Much like the auctioneer, His message today is “The son, the son, who will take the son?” Because you see, whoever takes the Son gets everything.

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. – John 3:16

Who Is He?

In Biology, He was born without the normal conception.

In Chemistry, He turned water into wine.

In Physics, He disapproved the law of gravity when he ascended into heaven.

In Economics, He disapproved the law of diminishing return by feeding 5,000 men with two fishes and five loaves of bread.

In Government, He is called Wonderful Counselor, Prince of Peace.

In History, He is the beginning and the end.

In Medicine, He cured the blind and the sick without administering a single dose of drug.

In Religion, He said no one comes to the Father except through Him.

He is Jesus.

Valued Friend

There are some people that we meet and know are going to be great friends for a long time. Many people come in and out of our lives and it is sometimes hard to keep in touch with everyone. However, this person is someone who has added value to your life. He is the man with good upbringing, values, virtues, disciplined and focused. They are the type of men that make you realise your dreams in a positive way without soiling your hands or delving into evil lifestyle and immorality, and reaffirm your faith that there are good men out there that you can date, but not this one. He is there as an advisor and friend.

Twenty Reasons To Drop Twenty Pounds For Males

1. Abs turn people on. Fats just spoil everyone’s appetite.

2. Because you whine that you need to. Have you ever been wrong about anything?

3. Every time you pick up a twenty pound dumbbell, you will remember.

4. It decreases your chances of developing back pain, depression, diabetes, gallstones, heart diseases, high blood pressure, impotence, joint problems, low sperm count, prostate cancer, sleep apnea, and an impressive collection of prescription drug bottles. The list goes on.

5. It increases your chances of putting four fingers on a basketball rim.

6. It is not scaling a mountain or writing a great novel. You can do it in your spare time.

7. It is the difference between being thought of as jolly or witty.

8. In our society, people respect weight loss. Even if you do nothing cool, interesting, or memorable for the rest of your life, you would have done that.

9. Men who lose weight never have less sex. They may not have more, mind you, but they never have less.

10. More pull ups, because there is less to pull up.

11. Research shows that since you will have less weight propelling you into the windshield, you will also have less risk of dying when your car hits a semi.

12. The clothing cliché ‘It is liberating the first time your pants fall down by themselves’.

13. The statement ‘There is more of me to love’ has an actual bedroom translation of ‘There is more of me to endure’.

14. Twenty pounds of human fat can refill every bottle in an empty case of beer, with enough left over to fill your blender.

15. Wait till you ride a bicycle when you are twenty pounds lighter. Vroom, baby.

16. You will be able to reach even more places to scratch.

17. You will literally get closer to women, like seriously.

18. You will lose weight everywhere, including the suprapubic fat pad at the base of your penis. So as your belly shrinks, something else appears to grow.

19. You will speak of toaster pastries the way you talk about that dirty blonde from the blues bar, another whisky-soaked lament over a love too great to last.

20. You will shock the world at your swimming pool by being the only ‘big splash’ champ to win the ‘little splash’ crown.

Trapped In A Lift

We never know when and where accidents will happen to us or people around us. Read on and hopefully this piece of information may help any of us when things do happen to ourselves, our friends, and our loved ones.

When you are facing life and death situations, whatever actions or decisions you make decide your survival. If you are caught in a lift breakdown, the first thought in mind may be ‘waiting to die’. However, after reading this, things will definitely be different the next time you are trapped in a lift.

1. Quickly press all the different levels of buttons in the lift.

2. Hold on tight to the handle if there is any.

3. Lean your back and head against the wall forming a straight line.

4. Bend your knees.

The reason is, when the lift falls, you will not know when it will hit the ground and it may result in a whole body bone fracture.

Point 1 - When the emergency electricity supply is being activated, it will stop the lift from falling further.

Point 2 - It is to support your position and prevent you from falling or getting hurt when you lose your balance.

Point 3 - Leaning against the wall is to use it as a support for your back / spine as protection.

Point 4 - Ligament is a flexible connective tissue. The impact of fractured bones will be minimised from the severe pressure during the fall.

Three Things In Life

Three things in life that, once gone, will never come back

1. Opportunity
2. Time
3. Words

Three things in life that are most valuable

1. Family & Friends
2. Kindness
3. Love

Three things in life that are never certain

1. Dreams
2. Fortune
3. Success

Three things in life that destroys a person

1. Anger
2. Pride
3. Unforgiveness

Three things in life that make a person

1. Commitment
2. Hard Work
3. Sincerity

Three things in life that you should never lose

1. Honesty
2. Hope
3. Peace

Three things in life that are truly constant

1. Father
2. Son
3. Holy Spirit

Things God Will Not Ask

1. God will not ask about the clothes you had in your closet. He will ask how many you helped to clothe.

2. God will not ask about the colour of your skin. He will ask about the content of your character.

3. God will not ask how many friends you had, He will ask how many people to whom you were a friend.

4. God will not ask the square footage of your house. He will ask how many people you welcomed into your home.

5. God will not ask what kind of car you drove. He will ask how many people you drove who did not have transportation.

6. God will not ask what neighbourhood you lived in. He will ask how you treated your neighbours.

7. God will not ask what your highest salary was. He will ask if you compromised your character to obtain it.

8. God will not ask what your job title was. He will ask if you performed your job to the best of your ability.

9. God will not ask why it took you so long to seek salvation. He will lovingly take you to your mansion in heaven and not to the gates of hell.

The Greatest Man In History

Jesus had no army, yet all the kings feared Him.
Jesus had no degree, yet people called Him Teacher.
Jesus had no medicines, yet people called Him Healer.
Jesus had no servants, yet people called Him Master.
Jesus won no military battles, yet He conquered the world.
Jesus committed no crime, yet people crucified Him.
Jesus was buried in a tomb, yet He lives today.

The Difference Between Friends & Best Friend

Friends: Call your parents by Mr. & Mrs.
Best friend: Calls your parents dad & mum.

Friends: Have never seen you cry.
Best friend: Has the best shoulder to cry on.

Friends: Never ask for anything to eat or drink at your house.
Best friend: Opens the fridge and makes himself or herself at home.

Friends: Ask you to write down your number.
Best friend: Asks you for their number because they cannot remember it.

Friends: Borrow your stuff for a few days and gives it back.
Best friend: Borrows your stuff and has a closet full of them.

Friends: Only know a few things about you.
Best friend: Could write a biography on your life story.

Friends: Will leave you behind if that is what the crowd is doing.
Best friend: Will always go with you no matter what happens.

Friends: Will ask where you have been after going missing.
Best Friend: Will miss you badly and goes on being your friend.

Ten Things I Look For In A Girl

1. Christian
2. Accepts Me
3. Lady-like
4. Family Oriented
5. Goal Motivated
6. Adventurous
7. Charismatic
8. Fashionable
9. Sophisticated
10. Understanding

Singled Out

Singlehood. For some people, it is a walk in the park. They relish the freedom of not being tied down by another person, and having the time and space to pursue personal passions, like picking up a new language, or going for enrichment lessons. They see it as an opportunity to explore who they really are and who they can be.

On the flip side of the coin, some singles feel like they got the short end of the stick. They find themselves constantly envying others, and feeling incomplete in a group of lovey-dovey, starry-eyed couples. Things get even worse when they see the class nerd going out with a hot babe or hunk. They find themselves constantly asking ‘What is wrong with me?’

All of us are designed for relationships with others. We need to give and receive affection and to connect with people. That is why being single can sometimes feel like we are missing out on something that the rest of the world is enjoying. We long for that level of authentic connection and intimacy with a significant other, to be known and appreciated for who we truly are. Whether you are a happy swinging single, or a depressed left-on-the-shelf-er, you are entitled to feel what you feel.

Real Intimacy

Intimacy is about revealing the self, but the ‘self’ is not revealed on command.

We all have an underlying need for real intimacy, beyond just sex. There is a great need in people to connect intimately with others. When we try too hard or in predictable ways to create intimacy, we generally fail.

Engaging in sex allows a couple to experience great physical intimacy in a very short time. However, after the thrill wears out, they may find themselves stuck in a rut of feeling very close physically, but not much else. While sex may be very pleasurable for a couple, it is better to wait until marriage to experience sex.

Psychologists believe that our drive for sex is not limited to just physical needs. Often, our desires are rooted in the deeper emotional needs for affirmation, closeness, and security. Sex can only really satisfy when all these are met in the context of a loving relationship. If we fail to meet these needs, sex may just end up hurting us more.

So whether you are in the dating stage or already engaged to that ‘special someone’, seize the moment and enjoy the process of discovering who your partner really is. What are his or her needs outside of sex, and how can you help to meet those needs.

Spend quality time doing things together. Discover the strengths in each other and affirm those things. Be honest about the ugly side of your partner, and help him or her to become a better person through your encouragement.

That is real intimacy.

Prayer For Anointing Oil

In the name of the Father, the Son Jesus Christ, and by the power of the Holy Spirit, I set this oil apart to be the holy anointing oil.

This oil is the holy anointing oil with the power to cast out demons and to heal the sick according to the Word in Mark 6:13 and James 5:14.

This is the anointing oil which sets us apart unto God and makes us more than conquerors and overcomers.

This is the anointing oil which honours God and man, and brings glory to Jesus Christ.

This is the anointing oil which gives us gladness and empowers us for service unto God.

This is the anointing oil which speaks of the finished work of Christ and gives us protection from all evil.

This is the anointing oil which blesses us and gives us complete victory in Jesus Christ.

Amen.

Love Is ...

Dictionary:

1. Love is a feeling of warm personal attachment, as for a child or a friend.
2. Love is a profoundly tender and passionate affection for another person.

I Believe:

1. Love is a mutual feeling where both parties are willing to give each other happiness without expecting anything in return.
2. Love is accepting another person for who he or she really is, and seeing the person’s flaws as beautifully imperfect.

Now, this is what I call true love.

Heaven’s Grocery Store

As I was walking down life’s highway many years ago, I came upon a sign that read ‘Heaven’s Grocery Store’. When I got a little closer the doors swung open wide and when I came to myself, I was standing inside.

I saw a host of angels and they were standing everywhere. One of them handed me a basket and said “My child, shop with care.” Everything a human needed was in that grocery store, and what you could not carry, you could come back for more.

First, I got some ‘Love’. ‘Patience’ was in the same row. Further down was ‘Understanding’, you need that everywhere you go. I got a box or two of ‘Faith’, ‘Wisdom’ a bag or two, and ‘Charity’ of course. I would need some of that too.

I could not miss the ‘Holy Ghost’, for it was all over the place. Then, I took some ‘Courage’ and ‘Strength’ to help me run this race. My basket was getting full but I remembered I needed ‘Grace’. I chose ‘Salvation’ for ‘Salvation’ was for free. I tried to get enough of that to do for you and me.

After that, I walked to the counter to pay my bill, for I thought I had everything to do the Master’s will. As I went up the aisle, I saw ‘Prayer’ and put that in, for I knew when I stepped outside I would run into sin. ‘Peace’ and’ Joy’ were plentiful, the last things on the shelf. ‘Praise’ was hanging near so I just helped myself.

At the counter, I asked the angel, “How much do I owe?” He smiled and said “Just take them everywhere you go.” I asked again “How much do I owe?” “My child” he said, “God paid your bill a long time ago.”

Grandma’s Duck

There was a little boy who went to visit his grandparents on their farm. He was given a slingshot to play with in the woods. He practiced in the woods but he could never hit the target. Feeling a little discouraged, he headed back for dinner. As he was walking back, he saw grandma’s pet duck. Out of impulse, he let the slingshot fly, hit the duck in the head and killed it. He was shocked and grieved. In a panic, he hid the dead duck in a wood pile, only to see his sister watching.

After lunch the next day, grandma said, “Mary, let us go and wash the dishes.” Mary said, “Grandma, John told me he wanted to help in the kitchen.” Then she whispered to him, “Remember the duck?” So John did the dishes. Later that day, grandpa asked if the children wanted to go fishing and grandma said, “I am sorry but I need Mary to help make supper.” Mary just smiled and said, “Well that is all right because John told me he wanted to help.” She whispered again, “Remember the duck?” So Mary went fishing while John stayed to help.

After several days of John doing both his chores and Mary’s, he finally could not stand it any longer. He came to grandma and confessed that he had killed the duck. Grandma knelt down, gave him a hug and said, “Sweetheart, I know. You see, I was standing at the window and I saw the whole thing, but because I love you, I forgave you. I was just wondering how long you would let Mary make a slave of you.”

Whatever is in your past, whatever you have done, the devil keeps throwing it in your face (anger, bad habits, cheating, debt, fear, hatred) whatever it is. You need to know that God was standing at the window and He saw the whole thing.

He has seen your whole life. He wants you to know that He loves you and that you are forgiven. He is just wondering how long you will let the devil make a slave of you. The great thing about God is that when you ask for forgiveness, He not only forgives you, but He forgets. It is by God’s grace and mercy that we are saved. When Jesus died on the cross, He was thinking of you.

Easy Versus Hard

Isn’t it funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then wonder why is the world going to hell.

Isn’t it funny how we can be more worried about what other people think of us than what God thinks of us?

Isn’t it funny how people can say that they believe in God but still follow Satan (who also believes in God)?

Isn’t it funny how we can send jokes through email and they spread like wildfire, but when we start sending messages regarding the Lord, we think twice about sharing?

Why is it so hard to tell the truth, but yet so easy to tell a lie?

Why is it so easy to delete a godly email, but yet we forward all the nasty ones?

Why we are so sleepy in church, but right when the sermon is over we suddenly wake up?

Why, why, why?

Butter Versus Margarine

Margarine was originally manufactured to fatten turkeys. When it killed the turkeys, the people who had put all the money into the research wanted a payback. They put their heads together to figure out what to do with this product to get their money back. It was a white substance with no food appeal so they added the yellow colouring and sold it to people to use it in place of butter. How do you like it? They have come out with some clever new flavourings. Both have the same amount of calories. Butter is slightly higher in saturated fats at 8 grams compared to 5 grams.

- Butter has been around for centuries while margarine has been around for less than 100 years.
- Butter has many nutritional benefits while margarine has only a few because they are added.
- Butter increases the absorption of many other nutrients in other foods. 
- Butter tastes much better than margarine and it can enhance the flavors of other foods.
- Margarine can increase heart disease in women by 53% over eating the same amount of butter, according to a Harvard Medical Study.

Margarine is one molecule away from being plastic and it is very high in trans fatty acids. It decreases the immune response and insulin response, increases the risks of cancers up to five fold, increases total cholesterol and LDL (bad cholesterol) and lowers HDL cholesterol (good cholesterol), and triples the risk of coronary heart disease.

This fact alone is enough to have people avoiding margarine for life and anything else that is hydrogenated (this means hydrogen is added, changing the molecular structure of the substance).

Try leaving a tub of margarine in your garage or a shaded area. Within a couple of days you will note that there are no flies, not even those pesky fruit flies will go near it (that should tell you something). It does not rot or smell differently because it has no nutritional value and nothing will grow on it. Even microorganisms will not a find a home to grow. Why? Because it is nearly plastic. Would you melt a container and spread it on your toast?

Before You Fall In Love

1. Do you like him / her?
2. Do you see a future with him / her?
3. What do you like about him / her?

Beautiful Imperfections

Falling in love is relatively easy, but staying in love is not. Sometimes we think that the ‘happily ever after’ feeling marks the end of our journey, but as one writer puts it, ‘True love never lives happily ever after, for true love has no ending.’

We applaud couples for showing such commitment and tenacity to their relationships despite their young age. Their relationships are not perfect. They have their fair share of different situations, heartaches, and personality clashes, but they have not thrown in the towel.

There seems to be a growing trend among young couples to break up and move on to someone new when they face conflict or hardship in their relationship. However, finding someone else to fall in love with is not the best idea. It can lead to a long trail of broken hearts and no one wiser for it. If that same attitude is brought into marriage, we can expect the rate of divorce cases to go up.

Instead, choose to brave the storms and work out your issues together, and you might find yourselves learning a lot about each other through the process. No one is perfect. If you are not perfect, chances are that your partner will not be perfect too.

True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.

Isn’t it amazing that George Carlin, a comedian of the 70’s and 80’s, could write something so very eloquent and so appropriate. A message by George Carlin:

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings, but shorter tempers, wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees, but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch television too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We have learned how to make a living, but not a life. We have added years to life, not life to years. We have been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbour. We conquered outer space, but not inner space. We have done larger things, but not better things.

We have cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We have conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We have learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of disposable diapers, one night stands, overweight bodies, quick trips, throwaway morality, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight or to just delete it.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it does not cost a cent.

Remember, to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Remember, to say, ‘I love you’ to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Give time to love, give time to speak, and give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

God gave me two boxes. He said, “Put all your sorrows in the black box and all your joys in the gold box.” I heeded His words and in the two boxes, both my joys and sorrows I stored. The gold box became heavier each day and the black box was as light as before. With curiosity, I opened the black box as I wanted to find out why. I saw in the base of the black box a hole which my sorrows had fallen out by. I showed the hole to God and mused, “I wonder where my sorrows could be.” He smiled a gentle smile and said, “My child, they are all here with me.” I asked God why He gave me the two boxes. Why the gold box and the black box with the hole? He replied “My child, the gold box is for you to count your blessings and the black box is for you to let go.”

A rich man invested a fortune in collecting art treasures from all around the world. One day, he read about a valuable art piece that he felt he must have, so he sent out his agent to find it and buy it. After months of searching, the agent reported that he had finally found the treasure. To rich man’s surprise, the masterpiece was stored in none other than his own warehouse.

Is this not also true of us? Are we still searching for treasures that we already possess, clamouring for yet another so-called ‘blessing’ when right underneath our noses are blessings that God has already given?

Some of us, in our pursuit of our own achievements, have missed the blessings God has given us in our homes and relationships. Many of us take for granted the greatest treasure anyone can have, that is our relationship with God and all that it brings. Through getting to know Him, God has given us everything we need for life and for godliness.

‘Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ, just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love.’ Ephesians 1:3-4.

A man went to a barber’s shop to get a haircut. As the barber started to work, they began to have a good conversation. They talked about many things on various subjects. When they eventually touched on the subject about God, the barber said, “I do not believe that God exists.” “Why do you say that?” asked the customer. “Well, you just have to go out to the streets to realise that God does not exist. Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people? Would there be abandoned children? If God exists, there would be neither pain nor suffering. I cannot imagine a loving God who would allow such things.” The customer thought for a moment, but did not respond because he did not want to start an argument. The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop.

Just after he left the barber’s shop, he saw a dirty and unkempt man in the street with messy long hair. The customer turned back and entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber, “You know what? Barbers do not exist.” “How can you say that?” asked the barber. “I am here and I am a barber. I just worked on you.” “No.” the customer exclaimed, “Barbers do not exist, because if they did, there would be nobody with messy long hair like that man outside.” “Barbers do exist. That is what happens when people do not come to me.” “Exactly.” affirmed the customer, “That is the point. God too does exist. That is what happens when people do not go to Him and do not look to Him for help. That is why there is so much pain and suffering in the world.”

A holy man was having a conversation with God one day and said. “God, I would like to know what heaven and hell are like.” God led the holy man to two doors. He opened one of the doors and the holy man looked inside. In the middle of the room was a large round table with a large pot of stew on it. It smelled delicious and made the holy man’s mouth water. The people sitting around the table were sickly, thin, and appeared to be famished. They were holding spoons with very long handles that were strapped to their arms and each found it possible to reach into the pot of stew and take a spoonful. However, the handle was longer than their arms, so they could not get the spoons back into their mouths.

The holy man shuddered at the sight of their misery and suffering. God said, “What you have seen is hell.” They went to the next room and opened the door. It was exactly the same as the first one. In the middle of the room was a large round table with a large pot of stew on it. The people were equipped with the same long handled spoons, but here the people were well nourished, laughing, and talking. The holy man said, “I do not understand.”

“It is simple.” said the Lord. “It requires but one skill. You see they have learned to feed each other while the greedy think only of themselves.”

I knelt to pray but not for long,
For I had too much to do.
I had to hurry and get to work,
For bills would soon be due.
So I knelt and said a hurried prayer,
And jumped up off my knees.
My Christian duty was now done,
My soul could rest at ease.

All day long I had no time,
To spread a word of cheer.
No time to speak of Christ to friends,
They would laugh at me I would fear.
No time, no time, too much to do,
That was my constant cry.
No time to give to souls in need,
At last came the time, the time to die.

I went before the Lord,
I came, I stood, with downcast eyes.
For in his hands God held a book,
It was the book of life.
God looked into his book and said,
Your name I cannot find.
I was once going to write it down,
But never found the time.

Girls are like apples on a tree. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Boys do not want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling down and getting hurt. Instead, they just take the rotten apples that are on the ground although they are not as good, but easy to get. This causes the apples at the top to think that there is something wrong with them, when in reality, they are amazing. That is why you just have to be patient, and the right boy, the one who takes time to find the good and right apple, will come someday.

City life. I just love it. Not that I prefer the fast pace life in the city to the slow pace life in the countryside, but I just find it pretty amusing. Watching the vast amount of people from all walks of life breezing through the shopping malls, dressed differently and all simply amazes me.

I like taking long walks down the city with a friend or two, chatting and laughing about anything we could possibly think of. Like those happy and precious little moments one could have with a few good friends. This is the type of life I like.

When can I take you for a stroll down the city without a care about everything that is going on around us? Blending into the crowd and going to the places we desire. Just you and me.

13.11.2007, I received this email from someone who used to be very special to me.

Hey,

I am emailing because I don’t think what I have to say can be said in SMS, and I think you would rather reply me in email anyway.

Sigh, where to begin…

I guess the first thing I should say is that I am sorry. The fact that you started denying me as your ‘sister’ means that I probably upset you pretty bad. And no, you were not ‘used’ as my ‘cheesecake boy’. Our friendship meant more to me than that. Yes, I enjoyed having the sweet treats, the cheesecake, the muffins, the tiramisu, and more cheesecake, but what I enjoyed more was having you as a friend. Sure, we are still friends, but I do miss those times when things were so much easier between us. Not trying to imply anything here, I mean I am fine with leaving the past as the past, but I just want you to know that you meant much more to me than a ‘cheesecake boy’ okay?

In fact, I never wanted to mention this, but when you first told me you might change church, I almost cried. Of course it is up to you to believe it. Who knows? Maybe I have not only lost you as a ‘brother’, but also lost your trust. Well, I am telling you I almost cried. That was the time I realised how much we drifted. And I want to say this. I don’t care if I am replaced, I don’t care if you find your present ‘sister’ so much more ‘sisterly’ or so much better than me. I don’t care okay? Because that does not matter now. However, I do care that my friend has been hurt because he felt used by me, and to what you said about the ‘simple things’ that I won’t tell you but want to know yours. Well, I honestly cannot remember exactly what you were talking about, because it was kind of long ago (by the way, since it was so long ago, why only tell me about this ‘sister’ business now?) Whatever it was, I guess that part was my fault because fair’s fair, you tell me stuff, I tell you mine.

I guess I was feeling unstable at that moment. I don’t know. Come to think of it, I never told you much huh? I don’t tell others much too. You were actually one of those few who knew the most about me. Sigh. Well, maybe we both have different standards of trustingness and trustworth. Sorry if I am not hitting the point here. I mean, you know, maybe you are pissed off at some other thing. Whatever it is, I want to know what I can do to reconcile okay? Because really, believe it or not, I really never meant to hurt you and I still treasure you as a friend.

And no, in case you are wondering, this time, I am not trying to reconcile so I can ‘use’ you again as a ‘cheesecake boy’, windsurfing instructor or otherwise. Let us put it this way, even if you did not know how to bake, did not work at Rocky Master’s, did not sail, or were not a scout, I would still want to be your friend. It is not about what you have, what you do, or what we have in common, it is you, the person whom I chose to befriend. It is still up to you to believe whatever I say. In case you are suspecting or wondering, I am not trying to be your ‘sister’ again. You already said “you can never be my sister” means I had a chance and I blew it.

Well, like I said, I don’t care if you have replaced me. I mean yes, being your ‘sister’ means a lot, but that is not my point here. My point is, I just don’t want you to feel this way. I don’t want you to have the wrong idea about our friendship.

I got to go. Guides camp tomorrow to 16th. So yeah, don’t expect me to reply via email, online, phone, or SMS. Thanks for reading. Thanks for being the ‘brother’ that you were.

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15.04.2011 – Red Bull Speed Street Racing 2011 Site Recce
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16.04.2011 – Fusion 2011
22.04.2011 – City Harvest Church Easter Weekend 2011
23.04.2011 – Mission Foods World Netball Championships 2011 Singapore Volunteer Training
30.04.2011 – Nike Goddess 5K 2011 Race Entry Pack Collection